Why is a change always so difficult!? When I was a student I had this one seminar that I attended and one of the activities in that seminar required the participants to come out of their comfort zones. It was a difficult exercise…but that is when I learnt that theres something called a comfort zone for each person under each situation. But what exactly is the comfort zone!?? Somethings that seem totally impossible in the beginning become quite easy once attained…and tend to become our comfort zones once we reach them. As has been experienced by me on more occasions than one…that nothing in this real world is amaranthine except for change itself…and still a change is so difficult always…painful at times and fatal for some who cant understand this simple dogma of life.
Its so simple and easy to write things down…why cant the reality be as simple as that…a friend of mine once wrote to me…”most of our difficulties are becuz our expectations are not met…to end your problems… either change your expectations or accept the reality.” The scope of the doctrine called LIFE… but one single thing that every sane human thrives for is…to lead a happy and satisfied life…SATIATED…is what every soul wants to be at the end of it all…at the end of all the toil…
I think of times when I really was satiated but without knowing that… was looking for every other thing in this world… and now that I know what I have lost… I still wonder…what I lost and what I gained…
Sometimes I cry thinking of the things I have lost… and life ahead seems so really impossible without those lost ones… and then I sit and think why cant life jus be the way it is now …forever…!!?? Why do things really have to change… and sometimes I feel why is there time enough to even think about the change…sometimes I feel I am strong enough to face every situation and every change that life throws on me…and then again sometimes I feel I don have strength enough to stand and face that change that’s coming my way…I look at it approaching me and try to run away from it…faster than it…so that it cant catch me… so that I don’t have to face it…
Change is difficult to face…easy to write about…and…forget it…
Change is unchangeable…gotto live with it… :)
3 comments:
lots of words, lots more tears through these words... it isnt going to change the fact that we are here so that we can face situations and go through them.
It is hard to adapt when one thinks that the present situation is compatible, but then the bright side is that life teaches us not to be complacent and that we have to continuously keep moving to stay abreast with time.
Change though easy to talk, is hard to walk.. but with grace from above and faith within, life will seem a easier pathway cos you would have a light that leads your way.
Stay firm, stay faithful, stay cheerful.. Only these are going to help you stay confident and stand tall.
cheers
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i know wwhat you mean by the Comfort zone..
it happens in everybody's life.. just that one doesn't realise it.. its always ends being named as expectation.. or taking for granted.. just because we are so comfortable with it .. doesnt mean we should take it for granted..due to which our expectations also rise..
guess this is how life works..
sometimes it just takes a very rude reality check to know it.. everybody does..
to be very very frank...one of the best blogs I've read...the way u have explained COMFORT ZONE was too good...keep writing...blogrolling you :)
do read my blog wen u find time...
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